Rightfully so, we have a strong revulsion to the idea of sexual involvement of a minor, and even more so one's own child. Thankfully that is not at all what the Daddy Dom/little girl (Dd/lg) relationship is about. Yes the title lends itself to that definition, but "Daddy" is simply the closest term to encapsulating the deep love and care-taking aspect of the dominant in this relationship, and the devotion of the little girl.
Though Dd/lg relationships seem to get the most attention, there also Mommy Dom relationships and little boys as well. Some prefer the genderless title of "caretaker" or "little". While others may be female, but identify as a "Daddy" instead of "Mommy". Any, and all, combinations of such are legitimate expressions of this deeply loving relationship.
Due to the negative connotations attached to the Dd/lg title, I will continue to use it (including corresponding male and female pronouns) in this entry, but the explanations and concepts may translate to other Caretaker/little relationships as well.
Several things to keep in mind about Dd/lg couples.
1. Both of consenting adults. The "little" is not actually under 18.
2. Neither of the adults involved are biologically related
3. Little Girls have no more "daddy issues" than anyone else. Most love their biological father very much.
4. Dd/lg participants are just as horrified at the thought of including a minor in anything sexual, or incest, as you are.
(I would like to acknowledge there are specific incest role play kinks. It is my opinion these are genuine fantasies people have a right to, and as it is not played out in reality, there is nothing wrong with it.)
So what compels people to risk abhorrence by both kinky and vanilla alike, and identify as this relationship?
Just as a real life father may, a Daddy Dom takes care of, and guides, his little girl so she can grow into the potential they both see in her. With this in mind he lays a groundwork of structure and support. This can include anything from rules to bed times to what they're allowed to watch on tv and more. Physically, mentally and emotionally the Daddy's goal is to see his little girl achieve everything she can. He will provide the correct environment, encouragement and motivation for her to do so.
For the little girl, her Daddy is her world. Her knight in shining armor. She trusts him absolutely. She loves him unendingly and constantly shows him this love. She may draw him pictures, or send him love notes or give him hundreds of hugs a day. Anything that can convey how much he means to her. She needs him to know. She also wants to please him and make him proud of her, and strives to do so.
That being said, as with any relationship type, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of ways people can function as a Dd/lg (Caretaker/little) relationship. The above description simply attempts to capture the nature of the relationship, not make rules or narrowly define what one must be.
Some relationships involve age play. Some involve the little regressing in her mine until she feels, and acts, whatever younger age she identifies with. Some little girls simply have maintained their child like wonder of the world, and are not only "little" during certain times, but always have that side of them available.
My quick outline of the Dd/lg relationship is shallow and simple. I strongly urge you to do your own research into this beautiful relationship. Those who participate in Caretaker/little relationships deserve the utmost respect and acceptance.
For more information:
Dd/lg definition by a little
A library of people's thoughts on Dd/lg
Starting a Dd/lg relationship
GOOGLE is your friend!
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